
Should a guy strive to impress you - YES- without a doubt. Infact, guys are naturally inclined to want to do stuff for girls. It's in their nature. If he really likes you, he will offer consistently.
However, should you be demanding outrageous things like rent, shopping, clothes, school fees, elec bills to be footed by a guy you've known for a week, 2 weeks, 2 months. A guy who's also starting out in life just like you? Hell no!
And please do not compare yourself to a married woman, she can make demands on her husband. Wife is a role, an undertaking, not a title.
What I really want to know is, where did you get the impression that a guy should be paying for your lifestyle. Surely neither your mum or your dad brought you up that way. When did everything boil down to a commercial transaction? What's going on?